I can connect without problems with the command > mysql -u
To test, I have created a database in a free hosting.
include mysql.bas
dbh = mysql::RealConnect("sql8.freemysqlhosting.net","sql8183953","N9yUkvribn","sql8183953","3306")
PRINT "Host info is: ",mysql::GetHostInfo(dbh),"\n"
mysql -u sql8183953 -h sql8.freemysqlhosting.net -p